Divorce and Holidays: How to Help the Kids

Madison Elizabeth Baylis

Show your love by cooperating, not competing

At holiday time we’re inundated with media images of happy families experiencing the holidays together. But the truth is that about 50% of marriages end in divorce; and of the ones that are intact, at least some of them are unhappy. So if those holiday images were more accurate, they’d reflect families that are struggling. In deference to reality, then, here’s some advice for all the families in which the parents don’t get along. You don’t have to be divorced to benefit. You just have to be unhappy with your child’s other parent.

Concept I: Because parents are adults, they need to make sacrifices for their children. And because children are children, they shouldn’t have to make sacrifices for their parents. Think of sacrifices for the benefit of your children as holiday presents.

Present Suggestion No. 1: Be more compromising than you’ve ever…

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