DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT THESE UNLESS YOU WANT TO RISK LOSING YOUR CHILDREN
1) Do not withhold visitation unless the children have physical injuries or strong indications of sexual abuse. If this is the case, consult an attorney immediately and consider filing a motion requesting an emergency hearing if you do withhold visitation. With all other concerns, you’ve got to work w/the court and hope for the best. Sometimes even with injuries and sexual abuse, women can be accused of making false allegations. This is a serious problem in today’s family court rooms. You are going to need legal advice.
2) Drop the hostility about other women – Just remembered you could have been the one to have the affair, you left him, you moved on to other men,the one your ex had an affair with, the one he left you for, the current girlfriend, the new wife…
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